12/31/2006

Happy 2007

New Year's eve has never been a big night for me. For years, I felt there was all this pressure to have a great night. Go to the best party, have the prettiest outfit, have the best night of the year, be with the right person at midnight, and have all those moments that are celebrated movie after movie. That's not to say I never had fun on New Year's, but it always stressed me out.

A few years ago I did have one of those movie moments - at R&J's wedding. And thanks to them, I had a few more as we celebrated the turning of the calendars with dinner and drinks at our favorite restaurant a few times. The stress I feel about New Years has wavered, maybe it's cause I've gotten older, maybe it's because I've now got happy memories to associate with it (such as the nuptials of two amazing people), or maybe it's cause I've found that spending a whole day with my soon to be (2 weeks) husband while pot roast simmers on the stove and a pint of Ben & Jerry's Mint chocolate chunk sits in the freezer waiting dishing out is perfect night. Of course, having a few glasses of wine and not having to drive anywhere is a plus as well.

That's not to say that I'm hanging up my party shoes. I look forward to some Rockin New Year's Eve's in my future. With balloons and confetti and all that jazz.

So hopefully, everyone's having their idea of a fabulous New Year - whatever that may be. Here's a toast to 2007; may it be full of joy and friendship!

12/05/2006

Red Eyes & Gin

I have finally finished my last bit of travel for work for the near future. The next time I will be on a plane, I'll be sitting next to my husband on our way to Costa Rica!

But before that I took a trip to the Pacific Northwest for our final board meeting of the year. Again, gotta love a 2-day meeting that has an agenda like 10 am Budget Review, 12 pm lunch catered by local farmer, 2 pm Program Review, 7 pm dinner at the fabulous restaurant care of the local chapter! So I had fresh salmon, delicous potato and egg things, amazing pita breads, rabbit & polenta, outstanding pizza, cheeses, and truffeled breads and satsuma sorbet. Not to mention the best potluck EVER at the Portland Convivia Annual Meeting.

And to top it all off, I got to experience my first red eye flight on Jet Blue - which gives you a lovely sleep kit with lotion, lip balm and an eye mask. Luckily it wasn't a full flight so I got a whole row to myself, where I was able to get a few shut eyes, and woke up to watch an episode of Buffy!

After catching up on some sleep, I joined a few others for a special event: The History and Traditions of Gin. Learned all about how gin is made, had a GREAT gin & tonic, blind tested 5 gins while learning how they fill out the taste on the tounge an thru scent and had some very yummy cheese to boot. Thanks Plymouth Gin!

Now I'm finally able to put all my frantic mumblings onto wedding planning - with only 40 days to go my to do list is growing and growing. I'm going for a fitting on friday, now that I have my bra and shoes all set, and hopefully will get my veil as well. Invitations were mailed (and RSVP's have begun floating in).

And I'm looking forward to getting into some more "real" blogging again soon - I know I've said it before, but it's my New Year's Resolution - to actually make time each week for some writing. So till next time...

11/18/2006

Nice People...

For the most part, I believe people are good and nice. But after spending a year in NY, I've gotten a little more cynical. Not for any particular reason, mostly because everyone around me is. And maybe I've watched one too many CSI:NY episodes. So I tend to keep to myself when on the street, or the subway - like most New Yorkers.

But I still believe people are nice, and once in a while they prove you right.

I was pulling out of a parking spot the other day in front of the house, and this little SUV had blocked me with about 2 inches between bumpers - on our hill. So as I tried to get out with my manual transmission, I rolled forward, tapped the bumper, and as the gas caught and I began to reverse, my front license plate got caught on the SUV bumper and was pulled out. Of course, I didn't notice this since I was in the driver seat. Driving around the Island, a nice gentleman rolled his window down to let me know. When I finally parked again, I tried to fix it but the lovely proprietary "screws" were not working. So I pulled a roll of gaff tape out and taped it on, figuring I'd either bring it in to be fixed, or have J take a look later.

Now here's where the really nice part comes in. I drove to work on Thursday so I could head down to a Food & Ethics Conference and when I pulled into the parking deck at my office, the very nice attendant (who I've only seen a handful of times) told me the plate was falling off. I laughed and said "that's why I carry a roll of tape". Well, when I picked up my car a few hours later, he had fixed my plate for me. Needless to say, he got a nice tip that day! Kindness of strangers.

11/03/2006

So Where Have I Been....

Let's see, life kinda kicks you in the ass once in a while. And October was one of those months. The start of October held 18 hour work days leading up to our annual Gala (which went well - the worst part of the evening being my car not starting at the end and having to have cute boys jump start it), followed by finding out that my darling J was coming home from the tour early! A whirlwind week of having my baby back to do dishes, only prolonged my inevitable "I just had a major event, and now my body's going to collapse with whatever sickness is floating around" about 5 days, just in time for me to be sick for the whole week prior to Italy, in which I had my first experience of having to let someone go on staff. So after finally making it to a doctor, who informed me that I indeed was sick and needed lovely medicine, I was healthy enough to do a little bit of apple/pumpkin picking with the littlest maksimow and her-chicks:

I then packed up my suitcases and got on a 12 hour flight across the ocean to Italy where I had a whole 12 hours of healthiness before the 36 hours of almost no sleep and working like a dog led me to illness number 2. So yes, I spent my 6 of my 8 days in Italy with no tastebuds, congestion like the Holland Tunnel at rush hour, and bearing a plague that would fell even the mightiest of oaks. But I did get to stay in the olympic village:

So I finally was feeling like myself, just in time for another 22 hours of travel to come home. And now it's November, my cold is almost nonexistant and life should calm down.

whoo, I'm tired.

10/06/2006

More Changes....

It's over! We had a successful gala last night! woo hoo! Waiting for some much needed sleep - although today it wasn't it because somebody woke me up at 6:30 this morning - with good news, but early nonetheless. Good news, my honey's coming home early! Yay! Ok. so gotta go have dinner with some of the big bosses tonight, but hopefully I'll be back to blogging soon!

g

9/18/2006

My Babe's Favorite Holiday...

it's Talk Like A Pirate Day!

Ok, I'm way to tired to come up with anything else - so click the link for more pirate speak.

9/06/2006

Quick Favor...

For those who have a moment to think some happy thoughts, send some good vibes along to Harrison.

8/15/2006

My first page....

So, I'll admit. I'm a little wedding happy. Once we hit the 1 year mark, it began to creep into my brain, and now has taken over many of the logical thoughts I used to once have. First it was the purchase of the obligitory bridal magazines. Then I began checking out wedding sites like Wedding Channel and The Knot - just looking at ideas, and pretty pictures of cakes. Then I began to have questions, so I headed over to the chat rooms to search for answers. Eventually I began to post the occasional questions, like "has anyone had a bad experiece with x" or "do you know a y in the area". And the slippery slope began. I started reading many of the boards, laughing at some of the issues and sharing the occasional "would you believe what just happened" with Jack. I started answering various questions about how far over budget, where to host a rehearsal dinner, and how to address an invitation and now I have recieved my first "page" (that's when your username is entered as the message subject cause someone has a question) - I'm officially an addicted Knottie.

I will say that the girls (and guys) on the boards have been helpful - at least to the specific questions I've asked. They also help me keep things in perspective, cause when I'll read about a woman in Arizona whose upset that her bridesmaid dresses won't match, I remember the important things - that my family and friends will be there, and party with us, and love us and each other and it doesn't matter if my sister has on a bright orange dress and fruit on her head. But they are also there when I have my bridzilla moments and can't decide how I should do my hair.

Girls, see what happens when your man travels the world and leaves you home with wireless, a laptop and wedding planning!

8/13/2006

Crisis...of a sort

I'm an organizer. I like lists, making plans, having a place for everything (even if everything is not in it's place). Growing up I would rearrange my bedroom often, keep in mind my bedroom was about 8ft square with a radiator under one of the windows, so there were limited locations for the bed, dresser, desk and skinny tall chest but I managed to try every possible incarnation during my teenage years.

This continued through college, including the year my roommate and I moved our "bedrooms" about 3 times, trying each room at some point as a bedroom. My first job, I think I rearranged my work space annually, if not more. Usually after each major event I would do a clean out and try to get a new perspective by moving things. It worked, but drove my boss nuts!

So now I'm in a lovely apartment, that doesn't have much flexibility in moving things. There are limitations, such as where the plugs are, the amount and size of furniture compared to size of rooms. So I tend to scratch my "organizing urges" by cleaning and moving picture frames, pottery (which I have everywhere) and reorganizing the kitchen cabinets (a favorite pastime). But my office is closed for the week, so I thought I would tackle one of the "big" organizing projects I've been wanting to do for a while - the closet.

We have a pretty big closet - it's under the stairs so it has an odd shape, but can hold lots. The problem is, it's really the only closet - other than the tiny ones in the bedroom (and I mean tiny - the house was build in 1920 or so and even the hangers don't fit unless they are angled!). So being the only closet, it stores everything - camping gear, my boxes of CD's, old clothes we're not ready to part with, off season outerwear, sheets, towels, tools, pottery tools, boxes of books that don't fit on the shelves, stuff we're saving for a yard sale and random baskets, pillows, picture frames and posters that have no where to go. Over the course of the year, this closet got out of control, where you couldn't even step in.

So today I pulled everything out, and began to organize. But somewhere I lost my steam. I can't figure out how to get it all back in there in a way that when I need that roll of wrapping paper, I don't have to dig it out from the bottom of a pile. I know the problem is to get rid of half of what I have in there, but pack ratty I am, and I purged before the move and don't want to purge any more. So now I trying to decide if I have the energy to go to Lowes and buy some shelving, which may help solve my issues, or just give up and not care - shove it all back in and enjoy the night with a bottle of wine, and my two fuzzy babies. Who knows, maybe after a bottle of wine I'll be able to master the dilemma!

7/17/2006

Hot Damn!

Here's the problem with not writing for a while. I get out of habit, and then I have all these little things that I want to share, but nothing is fleshed out really well. So instead I ramble about nothing, or maybe something without saying anything.

But I'll go with it, cause that's what I've got.

Random thought #1. My honey's home. There was a quick daytrip back to VA this weekend, but he's home. I love that someone else is now emptying the litter box. And doing dishes. And just making me laugh and smile

Random thought #2. It's hot. I really hate the heat, I hate when I'm sweating at 7:30 in the morning, and I really hate the idea of standing on a subway platform when it's 105 degrees out. I gotta move north!

Random thought #3. My work computer died. I dropped it off almost 2 weeks ago to be fixed and no juice yet. I'm trying not to think that I lost all my files, cause I hadn't backed anything up in a while. But each day makes me think less and less likely that I'll ge tmy files back.

Like I said, very much a cheese sandwich blog today.

7/10/2006

Soon...

In just over 24 hours my sweetie will be home. Home for about 3.5 weeks, before he's off again, but I'm going to enjoy every minute of it.

Besides the overall "i love him and miss him" reasons for being happy he's home, there's the cat litter, garbage, and dishes reason. But then again, I need to get used to the coffee cups everywhere, losing all the space in the bed and not being able to hog the couch when I'm watching Sci Fi Fridays. But I'll happily share!

Yay!

6/24/2006

All About Me - ABC

One of these days, I will actually write something with a bit of thought, but today I'm lacking some inspiration, so I'm "stealing" a meme from one of my favorite writers (and inspiring person) to get the fingers typing this evening. So, in case you want to know more about me, read on.

Accent: I guess Jersey. I was on the phone with the co chair of my board and said "draw" (the way us jersey girls pronounce drawer) and he caught me. He laughed and said "it was great". I don't know what that means, but it made me smile.

Booze: Red wine, sometimes white. Gin & Tonic's. Beers; lager, stout, ale's. Cosmopolitans made by the bartenders at Stage Left. Tried some Amarula, a cream liquor that was yummy yummy. But my tolerence has dropped dramatically since I don't do it that often. Does that make me old?

Chore I hate: Two words - Cat Litter. On the flip side, I enjoy washing dishes but hate putting them away.

Dogs/cats: Love my kitty cats. Even now when Moesie is shedding enough hair to make a whole 'nother cat and I have to sweep on a daily basis, I wouldn't trade her for the world. And even though max broke another container today, and was being pushy while I was typing, he always make me laugh.

Essential electronics: My powerbook and my ipod. I guess my cell phone too, now that telephone is primary means of communication with J. And I can't live without my kitchenaid mixer, withoug it I couldn't make cookies, and cakes and blend all sorts of stuff and now I have a meat grinder attachment and can make my own sausage.

Favorite perfume: Not a big perfume wearer, but I like the body shop's Pink Pepper. I don't really know other perfume's off the top of my head but I used to wear Rapture by Victoria's Secret that was a favorite of an ex. he said "it broke his heart" when I wore it.

Gold/silver: Silver mostly. I love jewlery of all kinds, and it doesn't need to be expensive, just funky and pretty. Some women are addicted to shoes, I'm addicted to earrings.

Hometown: good 'ol jersey.

Insomnia: Sometimes. Mostly in the summer, when my heat induced "the world's going to hell and we're all going to die" panic attacks start.

Job title: Technically - Director of Development. If it actually described all the hats I wore, about 3 times as long.

Kids: None, maybe someday but that will all be down the line. Now I enjoy playing "Crazy aunt G" to the three little ones.

Living arrangements: A lovely 1940's apartment with stained glass windows, a backyard and plenty of room for our stuff, but not close to anything that I wish I was closer too. Technically J lives there too, but since he is on tour it's been me and the fuzzy ones.

Most admired trait: Who knows what people admire in me - maybe my cooking. In college I was told that I always smile and I'm a happy, friendly person. What I admire in others, drive and determination. I also really respcet people who can be independent.

Number of sexual partner: Ummmm, none of your beezwax.

Overnight hospital stays: None - knock on wood.

Phobia: I don't really have any phobias. Other than my nervous panicky thing that occasionally happens when I'm nervous about random nothingness.

Quote: You have to laugh at yourself. You'd cry your eyes out if you didn't - Indigo Girls

Religion: recovering catholic.

Siblings: I got a big sister who is very cool and very crazy at the same time..

Time I usually wake up: Around 6. I'm much more of a morning person that J. I like being up early, but on the weekends I love to take naps as well.

Unusual talent: I learned in college I could do the lipstick trick (You know the one from the Breakfast Club that Ally Sheedy does).

Vegetable I refuse to eat: Brussel sprouts. And I've never tried them, but I had a roomatee who ate them all the time with a slice of american cheese on them and it made me not want to try them.

Worst habit: Procrastinator and avoider.

X-rays: I have scoliosis and had my back exrayed twice a year till I was 17. I'll never forget the exray technician. "Ok, don't breathe" click "Breathe"

Yummy foods I make: Everything. But seriously, I kick ass when it comes to meatballs, guinness cake, beef stew, chicken with artichokes and my spice rubbed roast chicken.

Zodiac sign: Saggitarius, but with many more Capricorn traits.

6/08/2006

Yummy things I ate in Kentucky

A few weeks ago (was it really only weeks, it feels like ages) I was visiting Louisville KY, so I could see my "on the road" man for some R&R. It was a great trip, despite the cold and overcast weather. A little bit of shopping, a little bit of sightseeing, and of lot of eating. I really like trying new things when I am travelling, and although Kentucky is not as exotic as lets say my trips to Italy, I still had many things that I had for the first time.

Fried Pickles - goes to prove my theory, batter and fry it and it's delicous.
Fresh Beets - first time, I finally ate beets that were not from a can. Pretty good, may have to eat more.
Goat Cheese with Tomato Sauce and Pita Chips - don't know why I never thought of that combination before - ooooooh, was that yummy.
Biscuts and Gravy - really, never had it before. Not bad, but not my favorite new taste.
Amarula - a lovely cream liquor that I must keep in the house.

I can find a bottle of Amarula, and goat cheese/tomato sauce - I can do that pretty easy too. Beets, especially now that it's summer, will become easy to get. So although the tastes were all new, I'll be able to incorporate them into my repetoire. Except the fried pickles. Those will have to wait for more trips south. Which makes me like them even more.

5/24/2006

A few Five Things

For lack of more inspired blogging, I bring you:

Five things in my fridge:
Leftover takeout Chinese, including pork fried dumplings and schezwan chicken.
A great selection of cheeses that I've been avoiding since I'm sick and can't appreciate a good cheese plate with this throat thingy.
Jar of pickles. Always. Love them.
A container of my dad's meatballs, gravy & sausage (coming in handy since I've been very sick and not cooking)
A bag of green beans that I have yet to cook - again, the sick thing.

Five items in my closet:
The dress I wore for R&J's wedding 6 years ago, and hope I can have an occasion to wear again
A box of random purses.
The shirt I bought for my niece's christening, and that I love wearing cause it's so pretty and so comfy
A box of old letters, some dating back to 8th grade
And occasionally, my cat.

Five items in my car:
A coffee mug, left by J
about 5 of my hair clips
A stack of cd's that I want to listen to, mostly from the latest cd exchange
My softball bat that I've had since I was about 15
My rollerblades, which don't fit me anymore, but I don't know what else to do with them and I'm not ready to give them up.

Five items in my purse:
Well, since my purse is just my wallet and my cell phone, I'll use my "work bag" instead
My "wedding ideas" little moleskin book that when ideas pop into my head, I can jot them down
My sunglasses
burt's Bees lip balm (this is in every purse)
A granola bar
change floating at the bottom of the bag

5/23/2006

Can Take the Girl out 'o Jersey...

A woman from New Jersey and another woman were seated side-by-side on an airplane.

The woman from New Jersey, being friendly and all, said: "So,where are you from?"

The other woman said, "From a place where they know better than to use a preposition at the end of a sentence."

The woman from New Jersey sat quietly for a moment and then replied:

"So, where are you from, bitch?"

5/13/2006

I'm on Vac-ay-tion!

This morning, I woke up bright and early to get on a plane to Louisville, KY. Why am I going to KY - well, I'm getting to spend 3 whole days with my sweetie! I'm very excited!

To go off on a tangent, I know I've been a huge blogging slacker lately. So I'm going to make a resolution to do more. The whole reason I started this was to have a place to muse over those random thoughts that pop into my head, but I've gotten caught up in trying to come up with interesting entries or highlight something - and since not much has been happening, I've had no push to blog.

So today's random thought will be about airports, since I am sitting in one waiting for my flight. This morning, as I pulled up to Newark, it felt really good. I've been doing a lot of traveling lately, and for work we ususally fly out of JFK. For me Newark is just as close, and even a little closer so I choose it whenever I can. So pulling up today, the familiar brown stone walls, and early 60's wing inspired overhangs made me feel at home. I think it's because living so close to Newark, we were often the "aunt so and so's coming to New Jersey, we're going to pick her up at the airport" family, so I remember many trips with my mom or my dad to the airport to get friends and family.

It's also the anticipation of travel. Although I've been jaunting here and there, I haven't burned out yet of travel. I'm in the "I know what I'm doing, but it's still a novelty" phase. I can get through security pretty quick. I know my way around most terminals. And I get a kick out of people watching and free snacks on the plane. It's also one of those times where I'll treat myself to fluff magazines and trashy romance novels.

I don't know if anyone else has warm fuzzy feelings about an airport, but I do.

so with the miracle of drafts - I began this post before I boarded, and am finishing it after I have landed. Newark dropped a few warm fuzzies after we sat on the runway for an hour while a practice security drill tied everything up. Oh well, I don't know if I felt safer flying, but it allowed me to get through all my reading. Now I have to buy another trashy novel.

and now I'm going to meet my guy, eat lots of good food and maybe even watch a little Dora!

4/28/2006

I'm a slacker too....

I know, it's been forever since I wrote. Work's been crazy (what else is new) and between the family, friends, work and missing my baby I haven't had the energy to sit and write. But if I don't do something, I'll never back too it.

Spent last weekend in New Orleans. The trip was for work - meetings 3 of the days, but did get to wander around. Once i get my pictures off the camera, I'll do a whole entry on that trip - not enough brain power tonight.

My mom is doing well - hip surgery agrees with her and she's doing great. She's getting around soooo much better and by this summer will be two-steppin' with her granddaughter.

J got the official offer for the second leg of the tour. So he'll be home for all of 6 weeks this summer before he's off to Europe, and then won't be back till December. At least when I go to Italy I can pop over and visit him in Ireland. But until then, wedding planning is so much fun alone...

Speaking of wedding plans, found the dress, talked to a travel agent and have an appointment with a photographer. Things are moving along and J gets all the wrap up on our phone calls.

And just to round out the boring entry, it's official my perfect niece is allergic to peanuts. So no PB&J midnight snacks with crazy aunt G.

4/16/2006

New Jersey to California: You are #2

Posted by Adam Browning at 7:41 PM on 13 Apr 2006

Like most people, I enjoy mocking New Jersey as a toxic miasmatic wasteland. Yesterday, New Jersey responded by serving me a double portion of shut-the-hell-up. By a 4-0 vote, the New Jersey Board of Public Utilities approved one of the most robust renewable-energy standards in the country. By 2020, 20% of the electricity the state's utilities sell must come from renewable resources. And there's more: 2% must come from solar, making New Jersey, on a solar-per-capita basis, the nation's solar leader. Take that, you California hippies.

4/10/2006

Spring Flings


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The weather turning to spring this weekend (at least Sunday), my mom wanted to BBQ with the family (and extended family) this weekend, so after an afternoon with my sis, and my "sis" in the city trying on wedding dresses, we headed to the folks for some 'dogs, burgers and ribs. The kids had a blast - especially when Joe was dragging them around in the red wagon!

4/05/2006

What a day...

I was completely having one of those days. I didn't want to get up, which made me late for work, so I foolishly decided to drive. I just couldn't face the thought of all 3 legs of my commute today - not so much in the morning, but more for coming home. I thought that since I left the house around 8:15 I might miss a lot of the morning traffice - but I was wrong and it took me an hour and 20 minutes to drive the whole 12 miles to my office. Which reminds me of how much I hate the city - but that's for another blog.

I was just out of sorts today. Feeling a bit sleepy, road raged from the morning drive, way, way stressed about work, and having some inner turmoil about a co-worker who I'm having a bit of trouble with. Add some inner turmoil about a friendship that is having some issues, and the fact that my sweetie is somewhere in Louisiana (or is Texas yet) and you could see how I was in a funk. A big PMS, all I want to do is soak in a tub, eat some ice cream or potato chips (or both) and wallow in my brooding until it goes away. But I couldn't - I had to go to work.

And as much as I love my job, 8 people in a room certainly doesn't help when I'm having one of those days. At my last job I had my own office, so I'd pop in some sappy music, feel free to get teary if I needed, spend an hour or so filing to get something accomplished and work through my mood by having a great lunch with my favorite co-worker. Can't really do that now.

So I made the best of it and popped on my earbuds and tried to pretend the world wasn't there as I poured my meloncholy into our appeal. When I looked out the window and saw the golden cast across the buildings, I was bummed I forgot my camera. And then a few minutes later it was snowing. This weekend I was out and about in a t-shirt, today it was snowing. Big marshmallow size flakes, fluttering past the window like feathers from a down pillow. When an hour later I went to find some comforty lunch food (shepards' pie from the new butcher down the street) and I realized I knew why it was snowing. Lil' ms. mother nature wanted to cheer me up.

I think I was the only person walking through the sleety sideways windy slushy snow with a grin from ear to ear on my face. I love snow, I made it back to office in a little bit of a cheered spirit.

When I left the office this evening (where it took me 35 minutes to go the 12 miles), I got on the phone with my sweetie, griped about all of the above and laughed about how it was sunny and warm again - as if the snow's only purpose was to put my mood in perspective. I'm feeling a bit better tonight - even if I didn't get my bubble bath, but there is ice cream in the freezer.

3/23/2006

Only the Lonely...

I think it's finally hitting me that J is off on his tour. The first few nights it was like "hey, he's out of town". But now it's like "hey, I have to take the garbage out, and do the dishes, and feed the cats...for the next 3 months!"

On the flip side, I'm having fun with my eating options. Now I can buy and make all the things I like that he doesn't. Mac and cheese with peas (so I feel healthy), bologna and cheese sandwiches on white bread (so I don't feel healthy), big salads and big breakfasts. And when I put cheese in the fridge, it stays there till I eat it.

I also felt slightly liberated in leaving a pile of dishes in the sink. For some reason it bugs me when he's around that there are dishes in the sink, mostly cause I can't make the dinner for the next night. But now, since it's just me, I can leave the kitchen as messy as I want. My inner "dorm living" is coming out with a sinkful of dishes, messy coffee table and my paperwork all across the dining room table. I feel a little guilty since I am usually on J's case about picking up after himself, but now I'm channeling his messiness - maybe it's my way of keeping him around.

But I do miss him, even if I'm sleeping better with only the cat to steal the covers. It's a bit lonely, and I'm starting to have conversations with the cats - good thing work is keeping me busy otherwise I might just wallow in my aloneness and begin to think the cats are talking back.

Here's to July!

3/16/2006

My Commute


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So, the past two days I've been leaving work "early". (translation, on time) so that I can have some quality time with my sweetie before he leaves. The upside - beautiful sunsets on the way home. Yesterday it was amazing - today a bit of cloud cover prevented some of it, but I still think the views were lovely!

3/10/2006

Memories....

Growing up in Jersey, I spent lots of time at diners. But before I was old enough to drive, and do the disco fries at 2 am, I spent many a night at one of the greatest ice cream parlors. After all the junior high dance, after movies, and our school concerts we all took our time to head to Jahn Ice Cream Parlor. A few years back, the Jahns in Union closed - it's now a CVS or a Rite Aid or something like that and I felt like a part of my childhood had gone. How excited was I to find that it still exists...even if it's in Queens. I did try the Kitchen Sink once or twice - and Karchamb - who could forget leaving JD's date at the dance so we could hit Jahns with out him. Wonderful, anyone up for a road trip?

3/07/2006

bye bye snow

The lovely weather in charleston inspired me to get rid of the snowflake and celebrate a llittle bit of Irish!

Charleston...


Mint Juleps, originally uploaded by gfiorillo.

Boy, do I hate my job sometimes. I had to spend the weekend in Charleston where it was 65 and sunny and attend a food and wine festival. I had to eat shrimp & grits, oysters, fried chicken, cheddar biscuts, macaroni and cheese, pulled pork and buttermilk pie. I had to sample wines and drink mint juleps. I had to shop and spend time with intersting and fun people. How do I stand this job?

2/23/2006

I can do it!

Alright, this may not make anyone as happy as me, but I finally created my own reports in Filemaker!

See, I was all happy when I started my new job. Espcially because they use Mac's, and as many of you know, since the purchase of my powerbook a few years ago, I am loving the Mac. The downside is that my years of becoming an Access expert were left in the dust, as Access is one of the few programs that does not cross platforms. So the Filemaker database and I met, with a little trepidation, but since I consider myself pretty tech savvy, and I'm curious and always eager to learn, I thought it would be a piece of cake. Not so.

Many days involved me hitting my head into my desk. Many times I prayed to have Access. And many hours were spent running and rerunning data so that I could get the answers I needed. But with the help of our wonderful Database Designer, a few manuals and the Filemaker forums on google, I've pretty much taught myself what I need to know so that I can run my own report and actually analyze and evaluate all the work I'm doing. Today, I printed my first official "solicitation/designation" reports. Now I can get information on all our fundraising revenue in less that 10 minutes so WOO HOO for me!

2/14/2006

Nothing says I Love You...

Like a half pound of pancetta.

Cause I love my sweetie!

Happy Valentines Day!

g

2/13/2006

Snow Day = Kitchen Day

Woo Hoo, I finally got some snow this winter! Of course, it did prevent me from going to the Indigo Girls concert with sis and best bud R, but instead, I spent the weekend in the kitchen. It had been a long time since I got to do that.

Saturday night we simmered some Beef Stew - I make mine with Guinness, bottom round, potatoes, carrots, celery, bay leaves and a touch of Worcestershire. The snow was not hitting record amount that evening, but still looked pretty!

Sunday, my inner baker took over and I made cookies. Lots of cookies. Those are honey poppyseed, anisette, and pecan shorbreads.

I want more weekends like this one.

2/10/2006

Pretty...

Happy winter Olympics ?! And it's not just because I'll be there in Torino/Turin in the fall, but I'll admit I'm a sucker for the opening ceremonies of the Olympics. I am often impressed and cynical about the performances, and we have a blast commenting on the theatrics of it.

This year's was no exception, and the "giant skier" was totally cool, as were the skaters with the flames shooting out of their head. I didn't quite get the cows, and I really wish the camera work was a little less "all over" so I could see some better full stage views, but overall very nice - specially the fireworks?.

Then came the parade of nations. This is one of my favorite parts, because I am always amazed at how REAL everyone is. There are no politics, no issues, just everyone excited and thrilled to be part of the Olympics. I don't know how I felt about the US athlete on the cell phone (it figures), but I like to believe she was talking to her 100 year old grandmother who was very proud of her little girl.

Then back to the theatrics - which are so much fun. Leave it to the Italians to reenact a painting. Amazing dance, acrobatics, costuming and pyrotechnics - and cars too! (Do you get the Ferrari if you win a gold?) I also like their taste in women. And John, I think Dance Plus nees some rigging choreography too - that was completely cool. Of course, I hate to ruin a moment but Yoko did sort of kill the moment for me. I am a little worried about Mr. Gabriel - he looked older than I rembered, but his voice hasn't aged a day - still amazing. Oh, and jack's building me the torch for our backyard.

All in all an impressive cermony! Now I'llprobably watch the occasional event, but the sports don't always hod my interest like the cermonies do. but that's the theatre girl in me. Così, goda i giochi olimpici de Torino!

1/22/2006

Me, in Fours...

Here's a meme I came across recently. While I've been lazing through the weekend with the inlaws, I thought I would include a litte trivial information about me that you may, or may not know.

4 Jobs I've Had
1. Theatre Usher
2. Ice Cream Parlor Counter Person
3. Dance Teacher for kindergartners
4. Daycare Assistant

4 Movies I Watch Over and Over
1. The Princess Bride
2. Back to the Future
3. Big Night
4. Bring it On (I don't know why, but if I find it on, I have to stop and watch - it's like a train wreck)

4 Places I've Lived
1. New Jersey
2. New Jersey
3. New Jersey
4. Woo Hoo - Staten Island (I left New Jersey)

4 Websites I Check Daily
1. Care2.com
2. Bloglines.com
3. Spoiler Fix.com (well, not daily, but often)
4. Grist.org

4 TV Shows I Love (that are no longer on the air)
1. buffy the vampire slayer
2. angel
3. Night Court
4. X-Files

4 TV Shows I Love that are still on the air
1. House
2. Lost
3. CSI (Vegas, baby)
4. 24

4 of My Favorite Foods
1. Meatballs and shells
2. chili
3. Potatos (mashed, baked, fried, chipped - any way)
4. summer jersey corn

4 Albums I Can't Live Without
1. No Reason to Cry - Eric Clapton
2. Layla and other assorted love songs - Derek and the Dominos
3. Blue - Joni Mitchell
4. Bitch Epic - Deborah Conway

4 Places I'd rather be
1. Anywhere there's a fireplace
2. Anywhere my honey is
3. Soaking in a bubblebath
4. Anywhere my friends are

1/21/2006

Breaking Up is Hard to Do...

We had been together for years. We had gone through so much. I hate the thought of not being there, but I had to give it up. The relationship just wasn't working for me anymore, and there were better offers out there. So I ask, is it wrong to want to write a Dear John letter to your cell phone provider?

I've been a member of Working Assets for years. Long Distance, wireless - I even have their credit card. At my previous job I used them as well for our phone banks. So when our new home phone was giving us issues (been staticy and noisy since we moved in - even after Verizon has "fixed it" 3 times), we decided to go to the digital phone and just grab the "triple play" package offered through the cable company. And, J and I decided it was finally time to go on the "family plan" for wireless the best offer came if we stuck with his current provider. So in one day I cancelled both my long distance and wireless with Working Assets.

And it hurts. I know it's silly, but I really liked them. Not just cause they sent me ice-cream when I first signed up. And not just because I knew they gave $$$ to progressive causes. But because everytime I called to do anything they were nice, kind, helpful and friendly. And the sales rep I dealt with through work was the same person for 4 years. Tell me that Verizon will have the same person for 4 years answering your calls and I've got a great bridge to sell you.

I want them to know that it was nothing personal. And I look forward to the day that I can go back to using them for all my phone needs. Until then, I'll just have to be satisfied with using the credit card and knowing that it was good while it lasted!

1/14/2006

January 13th

I know it's the 14th, but yesterday was a very important day, Well, first it's the official countdown to the wedding - 365 (well now, 364) days till our happy nuptials. Guess that means that I actually have to start really working on things.

The other important thing about today is it's a special anniversary. 20 years ago, young adults all over the globe were told "life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around, you might miss it". Yes, ladies and gentlemen Ferris Bueller taught us all that skipping a day of school could be the best day of your life.

I love John Hughes films. An FBDO after 20 years, if you ignore the white fringe leather jacket and cowboy boots, doesn't really feel very dated. And there is still so much wisdom, like the line above, that came out of it. Ok, maybe wisdom isn't the right word, but it certainly puts things in perspective.

So, since this weekend's gonna be kinda uky - weather wise, maybe it's a good time to hunker down with a copy and see what Abe Frohman, Cameron and the rest are up to.

1/04/2006

My First Souffle...

For Christmas, J and I recieved a set of souffle dishes and what better way to use them, but try a few dishes. For our quiet, romantic new years weekend, we explored a simple cheese souffle for the main course. Very basic, using a recipe from my latest favorite food guy, Alton Brown. It puffed anc crusted beautifully, and although it began to fall as I was perfecting my shot, I still think it looks as good as it tasted. Creamy, cheesy and wonderful with some champagne.

Not to be outdone with just a cheese souffle, dessert was a yummy molton chocolate cake, which while not a traditional souffle, I got to use the mini ones with the set. Keeping things mixed up a bit, we added cinnamon, cardamom and cloves, freshly ground thanks to R & J's present, to have a lovely wintery spiced cake. And who doesn't love icecream with their cake?

So, for my first attempts, I'd say I did pretty darn well. Oh, and using the tripod on the camera is completely helping my picture taking abilties as well, dontcha think?

g

1/02/2006

Farewell 2005

So, it's 2006. I really feel as this whole holiday season went 100 mph while I was standing on the side of the road. It usually does, but even more so this year with all the newness in the life. In a little way, I'm quite sad about it, because I love the holidays and I feel they didn't get the ritual or celebration they deserve, but then again I saw friends and family, even if I was less prepared this year than in the past.

J and I rang in the new year in style this year. Jammies, good food and our sofa. And while we regretting saying no to Metuchen fireworks, or an evening of hot tubbing, with everything over the past few months, we needed some good quality time with each and a weekend without any demands on our time. Saturday took us for some last minute food shopping, where we decided to try one of the supermarkets we hadn't been to yet, to see if it was closer than our current favorite. That turned into a 3 hour excursion where we started taking side roads, and a bit of exploring, leading us to two different and wonderful Italian Markets, one with fresh and frozen pastas of all kinds, sausages, and good cheese while the other had an amazing deli counter, really good prosciutto balls and strufoli.

And now that it's 2006, it's time to put my together my photo album for the year. As I began to go through my 2005 photos, I realized it was, to quote Frank, a pretty good year. The home front brought time with family to a new level through many more wonderful weddings, my niece getting bigger and talking, walking and just being the cutest thing. My parents are both getting healthier, loving their role as grandparents, and still taking good care of "their little girl" even if she is not so little anymore.

Good friendships got even better as the "Cool Table" continued our monthly night on the town (even if now I may not make them as much anymore). Old friendships got closer as a grammar school buddy moved into my neighborhood (even if two months later I moved out) putting us only an hour away instead of the 5 that we were for the past 13 years. Friends got married, had children and changed jobs and through it all we laughed at the silly things, continued traditions, listened when it was needed, and supported each other through trials and tribulations of growing up. And even now that I'm no longer a few minutes from my "jersey" friends, I love the time I spend with them, and look forward to lots more dinners, movies and dips in the hot tub.

2006 promises to be another hectic year so while I'm taking a bit of a breather today, I wish all my friends and family the best. Happy New Year!

1/01/2006

Happy New Year

New Year, new design - and I think I like this one a lot. Shouldn't do too much more tweaking, but playing a bit with the font colors. And the nice thing - it should translate for much more eas of use with other images. Not that anyone but me really cares.